Dave’s Eulogy For His Mom

Today, it has been 1 month since the passing of my Mom.  This is the first time I have mentioned here on the blog.  It is still too raw for me to process, but I thought this might be a good place to post the brief comments I made at her visitation service the day before her funeral.

    

Should Mark Buehrle be Elected into the Hall of Fame?

Today is the 5th of January and the first day of the second semester.  As good of time as any to get the discussion going about who should be elected into Baseballs Hall of Fame as the announcement as to whether and who the Baseball Writer's Association of America (BBWAA) elected to that August group will be made later this month.  

Here is some analysis as to whether Mark Buehrle should be enshrined in Cooperstown.  I'll be back later this month to share my feelings on Buerhle and the others who are appearing  the BBWAA ballot.

A Comment About Comments

 If uoi are a fellow blogger and you have been listed recently in one of the various blog rolls that appear here on Leap of Dave, you may have seen or be seeina in the future a comment on one of your posts that looks like thei:

Happy New Year! Each year at this time, I clean up my blog to prepare for the upcoming year.  I consolidate all of my blog rolls to one entitled something like These blogs are so last year. Then at the beginning of the year when people post on their blogs for the first time.  I read that post in it's entirety and usually read or reread the last post of the previous year.  This year I decided to then write a comment on the first post which is why you are reading this. 

The comment then will say specific things about their blog and post.  In a few days I'll stop adding a comment after the first post, but for the rest of the year I'll continue to prune the last year blog list and transfer most of them to the current blogroll.

I follow this procedure for multiple reasons: 1) It's a quick glance for me to keep up with  which blogs may have stopped posting over the previous year.  2)I helps me evaluate whether I want to keep blogs on my blog roll that I'm no longer reading or interested in.  3) In a bizarre way this process id fun and comforting me. 

 My blogging has evolved since 2008 when this blog began as Home School Dad.  Other blogs like Dave Out Loud, and Crazy Uncle Dave's Sports blog soon followed.  Eventually this blog changed names and incorporated some of the other blogs in a one stop shop/ multiplex of my many and varied interests.  

As my blog has changed so have my blogrolls, this yearly changing of the blog guard helps facilitate that change.

Two Thoughts on Life

Robert Redford and Rob Reiner were two of my favorite actors turned directors.  They both passed away in the last 4 months of  2025 and as a result I've been thinking about them and their work.  Yesterday, quite by accident, a movie quote popped into my mind.  I could not place the movie at first, so I googled it and soon this scene was on my phone.

 

 

This quote from The Natural, although said to Redford's Roy Hobbs rather than by him,   informs and leads  the protagonist to the decisions that makes up the film's climax.

Thinking of Redford naturally made me think of Reiner. Thinking of Reiner led to thinking of the Princess Bride, which led me to this brief scene.  

In reviewing the context of both of these scenes, the hard fact that life is painful cannot be denied.   Both characters were denied (albeit temporarily)  true love due to circumstances beyond their control. The quotes are both delivered to their respective true loves when at each point of the film a happily ever after doesn't seem to be in the cards.  

Hope and bitterness both carry transformative powers.  The concept of hope in the line "the life you learn with, and the life you live with" says to me, yes life is pain, but much like pain you endure in a fire swamp you can learn from that pain.  Thinking that life is only pain can create a bitterness that is hard to overcome.  I am glad  that the 4 characters depicted in these scenes found their happy endings.  When I think of Redford and Reiner and all the stories they told through their acting and directing, it makes me sad that their lives have ended (especially in the tragic way Reiner's ended ) but glad that I am still learning about life through their work.  

Close Only Counts in Horseshoes, Hand Grenades and placing 0-2 Notre Dame in the AP top 25

Today, is my last post of the year.  I originally started this one  September 14th after the AP writers release this, their 4th college poll of the year.  The University of Illinois was 3-0 and they got ranked 9th to show that,  The University of Tennessee was 2-1 having just lost 44-41 to the University of Georgia  in overtime so they were rewarded for their loss by staying put at 15th.  This may seem unfair to some of the 17 other teams along with U of I ranked in the AP top 25 who started 3-0  especially the 8 3-0 teams ranked below TN all because the Volunteers played the Bulldogs close.

However one team dropped inexplicably in the rankings and they certainly had a bigger axe to grind than the 3-0 teams who felt slighted by TN.  This team had started the year ranked 6th in the preseason poll .  The next week they dropped from 6th to 9th.  They had a bye week in week 2 so they were able to jump us from 9th to 8th but then the indignity of plummeting, freed falling, dropping from 9th to 24th.  

This of course was South Bend Indiana's gift to Football itself, Notre Dame.  What did Notre Dame do to deserve this national embarrassment?  Failure to achieve any of the goals they set for themselves?  No, I think that might just be too on the nose for the AP writers.  Notre Dame had lost their first game and then after 2 weeks to think about it lost their 2nd game.  Now, they only lost by a total of 4 points, so that was plenty of reason to place them above undefeated U.S.C. (who beat their 3 opponents by 115 points),  and BYU (+93 point differential in their 2 games). 

I mean that's crazy? How entitled can BYU get complaining thinking that their 2-0 start should be rewarded and place ahead of a team that could at that point  in the season  count all their victories with no hands.

I meant to get that out much sooner than today, but Notre Dame started winning and my original post got relegated to draft status.  I always like to resurrect a post or two from draft status near the end of the year and I thought the title of this post, alone, merited an end of the year reprieve.

Yesterday Illinois and Tennessee met for the first time on the gridiron in the music city bowl here are the highlights.