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A Quote to Start Things Off

If we ever think well it should be when we think of God. - A.W. Tozer, The Knowledge of the Holy

Thursday, April 24, 2025

R is for R.I.T.A. Republican In Theory Anyway

#AtoZChallenge 2025 letter R

My A to Z Challenge Theme this year is the ABC's of me.  Each day in the month of April with the exception of Sundays I will be posting about one aspect of my life that begins with the letter of the day. 

It's time for some  A to Z catch-up. , I am currently 3 posts behind.  The next letter is  R so let's get right to it shall we?

G was for Giraffe Lover

H was  for Husband of One Amazing Wife

I was for Iguchi Appreciator

J was for Jester

K was  for Kindergarten Clear

L was for Library Lover

M is for Muppet Man

N was for Narnian

O was for Optimist

P was for Poet

Q is for Quintessential Worker

R is for R.I.T.A. Republican In Theory Anyway

The phrase Republican in Name Only has been around for over a century.  The acronym Rino is only been in place a little more than 30 years.   Vox did an excellent job in 2015 chronicling the history of the phrase and the acronym and the shift in meaning over the years.  A RINO to mix my metaphors a little here is a politician who walks like a duck talks like a duck but swears there an elephant.  

I am no RINO.  But just as the meaning of the phrase Republican in Name Only has shifted so has the perception of what it means to be a Republican in America these days. I slowly began to find myself cringing just a little when identifying myself as a Republican then Donald Trump became President in 2017 and I found myself cringing a little more then a lot more as his term went on.  

In late November of 2020, I became more hopeful.  Trump had lost the election although he and some of his followers were still contesting it, Republican officials in the disputed areas were the first to admit that he did not have enough votes to win. I wrote a post on one of my blogs entitled 10 Things I'd Like to See the Republican Party Do Now That the Election is Over. 

I encourage you to click on the title and read the article before moving forward.

The 10 issues or actions were:

Abortion

Racial Reconciliation


COVID 19

Distancing from Donald Trump

Establish a Platform

Address Gun Violence

Widen Base

Reform Immigration Compassionately

Reestablish Sound Foreign Policy

Appeal to Independents.

Now I want to give credit where credit is due  from the time I wrote that post until this present moment in time the Republican Party has only failed to achieve 10 of these goals. I mean come on the 2024 White Sox won more than 10 % of their games.  You think the Republican party could have addressed at least 1 of my concerns.


If you look at some of my concerns it's obvious from the title that the Republicans have not addressed them.  How can a party distance themselves from Trump and elect him again at the same time?  They can't.  How can a party reform immigration compassionately when they are allowing the deportation of those who are here legally? How do they reestablish sound foreign policy by allowing a President to chastise allies visiting the White House for wanting a war to stop in their country?  How do they reestablish sound foreign policy and allow their President to talk about adding their neighboring country and ally as a 51st state?  You can't in either situation. As for widening the base and appealing to independents it is difficult to imagine much of either happening with such a polarizing President.  This is especially true when the rest of the GOP will not provide checks and balances to the President and seemingly live in fear of him as was written about  in an opinion piece in  today's U.SA. today

President Trump, his policies, his character, his demeanor, and for that matter his medeamors and his felonies are a large part of why I am only Republican in theory, anyway. Perhaps a greater part is how others have allowed him not only to lead the party but define it.

It started well before 2015, but when 16 other Republican leaders ran in the Republican primary and  did not put personal  and party desires over protecting the  presidency from the unbalanced that's when I realized that the Republican party was no longer close to what it was even a quarter century before when I started aligning myself with them.  

In theory they may still be the Grand Old Party riding on an Elephant and bringing the Cold War to a halt.  But to quote Remember The Titans "Attitude reflects leadership", and the attitude of this president has made his party simply, the elephant in the room that no other Republican dare talk about.  


I hate to rant and run, but it's time to move on. Click on the various words to get to the various places.





Coming Up RITA and weep  






Tuesday, April 22, 2025

Q is for Quintessential Worker

#AtoZChallenge 2025 letter Q

My A to Z Challenge Theme this year is the ABC's of me.  Each day in the month of April with the exception of Sundays I will be posting about one aspect of my life that begins with the letter of the day. 

It's time for some  A to Z catch-up. , I am currently 2 posts behind.  The next letter is  Q so let's get right to it shall we?

G was for Giraffe Lover

H was  for Husband of One Amazing Wife

I was for Iguchi Appreciator

J was for Jester

K was  for Kindergarten Clear

L was for Library Lover

M is for Muppet Man

N was for Narnian

O was for Optimist

P was for Poet

Q is for Quintessential Worker

Quintessential: perfectly typical or representative of a particular kind of person or thing

 Merriam Webster On-line Dictionary

Synonyms for quintessential: 

Classic, Exemplary, Definitive


It's been over 5 years since the co-vid shut down and some of the things that were common place back then are getting  a little fuzzy in our collective memories. Social distancing, the prevalence of  masks, one way lanes in supermarkets, daily co-vid updates, drive by graduation celebrations, zoom game nights lessened and some all but disappeared.  The necessity and celebration of essential workers has changed somewhat as well.  I was an essential worker for a year at the onset of co-vid.  Stocking grocery shelves overnight and glad for the work.

It was nice being an essential worker but I have always strived to be a quintessential worker. Colossians 3:23-24  says "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving." I have always tried to model that verse in my work life.

Work for me has always been more about meeting needs than having a career.  Some of those needs were the financial needs of me and my family.  Other of those needs were the needs of my customers.  There were also the needs of my employers and co-workers.  Each job I have had , and I've had lots of them has always had a component of ministry.  

I remember when I was making the transition between corporate customer service and education working a part time/ seasonal job at Amazon. A shift could easily  segue from more work than people to do it to more people than work to do. When the latter happened, I would always try to find some way to be useful.  One day I asked my manager for a reference.  He said to me "Dave, you work with a sense of urgency." I only worked that job four months and am in my 7th school year as a substitute teacher since then.  I have also worked several 2nd jobs and summer jobs in that time.  In each of these jobs I have reflected on my managers comment and continue to work with that sense of urgency.

Sometimes  that means  going out of my way at the movie theatre to make sure patrons enjoy their experience or  at school making sure a student doesn't miss his bus while he goes back to his room to get his backpack.  Sometimes it means making jokes to customers ,students or co-workers  just to brighten their day a little.  

I worked in customer and client relations at a mortgage company for about 10 years coinciding with the first 10 years of my marriage.  My checks were automatically deposited to my banking account, but this wasn't as prevalent as it is now.  Many employees received paper checks and all employees received an envelope every 2 weeks with at least the paystub if not a paycheck for the previous pay periods work.  Most every time my boss handed out our envelopes I would  remark, "This is great, I thought I was volunteering."

I guess the point I'm trying to make is that working is more than 401 K's, paid vacations and insurance benefits.  I'm glad I've been able to experience and benefit from those things. but it's also about being a positive influence, having a servant's attitude, and a team spirit.  

That's Q for Quintessential Worker.



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Coming Up RITA and weep


Monday, April 21, 2025

P is for Poet

 

#AtoZChallenge 2025 letter P

My A to Z Challenge Theme this year is the ABC's of me.  Each day in the month of April with the exception of Sundays I will be posting about one aspect of my life that begins with the letter of the day. 

It's time for some  A to Z catch-up. , I am currently 2 posts behind.  The next letter is  P so let's get right to it shall we?

G was for Giraffe Lover

H was  for Husband of One Amazing Wife

I was for Iguchi Appreciator

J was for Jester

K was  for Kindergarten Clear

L was for Library Lover

M is for Muppet Man

N was for Narnian

O was for Optimist

P is for Poet

They say beggars can't be choosers.  I think the same logic applies to people who are behind on their assignments.  Instead of not being choosers, we can't be perfectionists.


So I'm just making a pastiche of some examples of my poetry for today's post.  If it's been on my blog or appeared somewhere else before I am also providing a link.  

In 2023 and 2024 I participated in the Kid Lit Progressive Poems  as part of the celebration of April as National Poetry Month.  A progressive poem is ehre several poets take turns writing a line for that day's part of the poem.  I have included the 2023 poem in it's entirety with my contributions are in bold/

Raindrops, Moonseeds, and Dreams 

 Suddenly everything fell into place
 like raindrops hitting soil and sinking in. 

When morning first poked me, I’d wished it away
 my mind in the mist, muddled, confused. \

 Was this a dream or reality, rousing my response? 
The sun surged, urging me to join in its rising, 

 Rising like a crystal ball reflecting on morning dew. 
I jumped out of bed, ready to explore the day.
 
 My feet pulled me outside and into the garden 
Where lilies and bees weave…but wait! What’s that? 

 A bevy of bunnies jarted and darted and played in the clover. 
A dog barked and flash, the bunderstorm is over. 

 I breathed-brave, quiet. Like a seed,
 as the day, foretold in my dream, ventured upon me. 

Sunbeams guided me to the gate overgrown with wisteria 
where I spotted the note tied to the gate. 

 As I reached the gnarled gate, pollen floated like fairy dust into my face. Aaah Choo! 
Enter, if you must. We’ve been waiting for you. 

 Not giving the curious note a thought, I pushed the gate open and ran through.
 Stopped in my tracks, eyes wide in awe—can this really be true? 

Huge mushrooms for tables, vines twined into chairs, 
A flutter of fairies filled flowery teawares 

 With glazed nut cakes and apple blossom tea, 
I heard soft whispers from behind a tree. Oh my! They had been “waiting for me!” 

 Still brave, but cautious, I waited for them. 
Forested friends filled the glade. “You’ve arrived! Let the reverie begin!”

I laughed as my bare feet danced across the dew-soaked grass, 
matching the beat of paws, claws, and wings—around me, above me. 

Tea cakes and hugs, twice all around, then silly games and races ’til the sun slid down,
 Moon shared a warm wink, and showered moon-seeds over earth’s precious ground.

A few years ago I did a holiday poetry reading for Christmas.  Here is the you tube video ...


Last Year for the Q day if the challenge, I wrote a poem:  \

According to Merriam Webster, A quatrain is a unit or group of four lines of verse.  I have decided to write the heart of my A to Z post in quatrains today.  I am following an ABCB rhyme scheme


My A to Z Q Post


The A to Z Challenge

Is a big to do

Each year I struggle

As I get to Q


My theme this year

Has been Holidays

I've tried to approach it

In some different ways


Each Day, save Sunday

Calendars I consult

And search for Holidays

That I can exult


When I find the occasion

That I like better

I match the event

With that day's letter


For example April 2nd

Was Children's Book Day

B is for Book

I put on display


On the days of the alphabet

That start with A, E, I, O or U

I created my own holiday

Don't ask Y, but it's true


Today's Holiday

Wasn't hard to find

It was Poetry

And the creative mind


But how would that match 

With the letter Q?

I just scribbled out some

Quatrains for you


This has been Poetry Friday

And Also A to Z

Thanks ever so much

for joining me. 



I am not entirely a rhyming poet.  I think all of my poems referenced here do rhyme.  I did do an Acrostic poem for O in this years challenge and while that did not rhyme it did follow a pattern. 

SO to end this post I'll just jot some unrhymed lines and see if later I can make something more of it.  


Twisting and turning
The parade passed through

An optical illusion or a deliberate lie
A furtive glance of desperation

Ignorance of the truth 
disdain for the needy

The I doesn't see
That the me is beside myself
in myopic misery

A buffet of brutality
with extra helpings of apathy
washed down with righteous indignation

X marks the spot
where twitter once retweetd

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Coming Up Quintessential Work Ahead












Saturday, April 19, 2025

O is for Optimist

 

#AtoZChallenge 2025 letter O

My A to Z Challenge Theme this year is the ABC's of me.  Each day in the month of April with the exception of Sundays I will be posting about one aspect of my life that begins with the letter of the day. 

It's time for some  A to Z catch-up. , I am currently 1 post behind.  The next letter is  O so let's get right to it shall we?

G was for Giraffe Lover

H was  for Husband of One Amazing Wife

I was for Iguchi Appreciator

J was for Jester







K was  for Kindergarten Clear

L was for Library Lover

M is for Muppet Man

N was for Narnian

O is for Optimist

Today is also Poetry Friday and since there is only a few minutes left in Friday, I will share a poem about Optimism and be back tomorrow to write about how I'm a poet.  The slacker in me wants juts to combine both but I think I can prevail.


OPTIMISM

Opportunities Present Themselves In Many Initially Simple Matters

Pessimists Turn Inner Memories Into Seeing Mirages

They Ignore Messages Indicating Successful Management

I Might Instead Secure Motivation

Motivation In Seeing Myself

Instinctively Moving Swiftly

Striding, Marching

Masterfully


Poetry Friday is being hosted this week by Jone Rush MacCulloch. Check it out!



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A to Z Challenge Page for the letter O


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