
H was for Husband of One Amazing Wife
H was for Husband of One Amazing Wife
This is my 2nd of two reflections for the A to Z 2024 challenge, This will include some thoughts feelings and concerns in no particular order from my foray into all things Holidays. If you would like to see my first reflection which focused on the playlist I amassed from my songs of the day during the challenge click here.
My Theme for the 2023 A to Z challenge was Holidays. The idea behind it started to germinate when I worked at Chase in their Business Fraud department. Each day we my manager would start a chat for all of us working on that day. Each day she would title the chat with a different holiday that was taking place that day. She would choose the Holiday from a list she would find on the internet for that day. I don't remember exactly which one she queued them from, but it was similar to what you would find on National Day Calendar.
Instead of making an alphabetized list of such holidays, I wanted to actually choose holidays occurring on the day the letter was posting. From the start this proved to be problematic. National Autism Awareness Day is April 2nd and autism starts with an A. but April 2nd we featured the 2nd letter of the Alphabet, which is a B. Some worked out just fine, like April 4th was the first day of the United Kingdom's Discover National Parks Fortnight. May need just a little tweaking. Wednesday, April 3rd which is National Film Score Day matched with the letter C, by being described as Cinematic Compositions.
When I get a idea for a theme , I often add to it a few wrinkles. One wrinkle I added was immediately confusing. I decided to not only write about actual made-up holidays, but to also make up 5 of my own. I chose 5 because there are that many vowels in my native tongue. I say immediately confusing because A, the first letter of the alphabet is a vowel, so I made up a holiday, Adult Children Appreciation Day, on the first day of the challenge. It wasn't until the next day that I started chronicling actual holidays like Children's Picture Book Day which I introduced as B is for Books for Children.
Even though I explained the entire concept each day with the same exact disclaimer:
For The A to Z Challenge this year, I am focusing on everyday holidays. Each day there are multiple unusual things to celebrate. Every day of the challenge I look for an event taking place that day and pair it with the letter of the day. I have also made up 5 holidays to coincide with the vowel days of the challenge.
I still think that doing something different with the vowels was confusing and I don't think I'll attempt that again. I did, however like making up holidays. For Adult Children Appreciation Day I wrote each of my 3 children aged 18 to 24, a letter appreciating, encouraging, and advising them. I plan to do the same the next time Adult Children Appreciation Day Rolls around which will be on April 21st , 2025 (As you know, Adult Children Appreciation Day is always the Monday after Easter). Besides Adult Children Appreciation Day, I also created 4 other Holidays
E was for Wedding Planner Black Friday
I was for Indicted Illinois Governors Day
O was for One More Time and You get a Parade Day
U was for Undecided, Undeclared & Uncertain Day
Speaking of Undecided, Undeclared & Uncertain Day, I tried to mix up my presentations here and there this challenge. This blog used to be 4 different blogs, 2 general interest blogs, 1 vlog, and 1 sports blog. During the challenge I tried to bring in features from some of these blogs to my daily posts. The U post was presented in vlog fashion as a You Tube video of me presenting the day in question. On my M day I posted about National Micro-volunteering Day, but I did so in Frequently Asked Question Format which is a format I have used multiple times before in my blogs. I even had two holidays regarding sports for S and T.
I completed the challenge this year. What I try to do is predate my entry so it drops at the time that reflects that day's date. For example my A post dropped at 4:01 A.M. on April 1st. Some days I had to manually post later that day. On one occasion I posted minutes before midnight. I was never late and I was never early each post dropped on the correct day.
I didn't drop in on every blog but I did visit quite a few, I received 90 comments on my blog in April and I feel like I may have left that may comments myself. Next year I'll try to keep track. I discovered 3 new blogs during the challenge that I have been following, they are Hot Dogs and Marmalade, The Versesmith, and Backsies is What There is not. I am giving them all a try out on one of my blogrolls along with the The Curry Apple Orchard, which was my favorite blog to follow during the challenge. Now that the challenge is over I hope to pore through every reflection and discover some more blogs worth following,
Before I put this reflection to bed, and me with it, I have a couple of final thoughts.
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By Gilbert Stuart, Public Domain, Link
Last Month I participated in the A to Z Challenge. My theme was A Month at the Movies.
The Films I examined were ...
Empire Strikes Back, The -1980
When A Man Loves A Woman -1994
You Can't Take It With You -1938
A Closer Look
Each post contained my thoughts on the film, a positive and a negative Rotten Tomatoes review, a comment referencing what the film had to say about resilience, which was the theme of the A to Z challenge this year, a comment regarding whether this film might be in my top 100 films of all time (a list I'm in the process of revising), and any connections the film might have with other films in the challenge.
Previous Years Challenges
2012: No Theme
2015: Nouns
2015 White Sox Home Run Hitters (Crazy Uncle Dave's Sports Blog)
2016 Y is for You Tube - Dave Out Loud
2016 Cubs Home Run Hitters - Crazy Uncle Dave's Sports Blog
2016 A to Z Superheroes (Sadly I no longer have access to these posts)
2019 Songs of the Sherman Brothers Random Acts of Roller
2020 State and World Capitals Random Acts of Roller
2021 Living in 1921
2022 Wordles, Limericks, and Home Runs (Oh my)
Reflections on 2023
At times I wondered when quoting negative and positive reviews of each film whether people might be confused about how I felt about the film. Other times I felt a little bit of guilt in posting a negative review of a film I adored. However, my intention was to show the reader the spectrum of opinions that a movie no matter how well done can engender. In the end, I was gratified that I could find well-reasoned arguments on both sides regarding the quality or lack thereof for each of my selections.
For the most part, this was another good year at the challenge. I did not interact with as many other blogs as I would have liked to. I don't think I looked at any blogs other than my own for the last week of the challenge. Each year I tell my wife that I should have all the posts written before the challenge starts. I never get anywhere near that goal. This year I had a few fully prepared in advance, but I had set up each post in advance and had added good chunks of information ahead of time. For example, I had the graphics copied to the individual posts about 2 weeks ahead of time and the Rotten Tomato reviews were linked usually the Sunday before the week they appeared. I also in retrospect was wise because I finished Z and Y completely before the challenge, so when Friday hit and challenge fatigue was at its highest, I was essentially finished with the challenge.
FAQ
Did each film represent your favorite film with that letter?
No, some films were, and many films were not. Adventures of Robin Hood is one of several A movies that are in my top 100, whereas Arsenic and Old Lace will probably not make my top 100. Arsenic and Old Lace was the one I chose to feature.
Did you have certain criteria for choosing each film?
I wanted each movie to have had a theatrical release, and I wanted it to be a movie I had previously seen and enjoyed, Other than that I did not have specific criteria.
Did you rewatch each movie in anticipation of the challenge?
No, but I did rewatch some prior to writing my post and watched others on or near the day the post dropped. I watched You Can't Take It With You this afternoon with my wife as a post-challenge treat.
Closing Remarks
I think that there should be a week or so between the end of the challenge and the beginning of the reflection period. Reflection shouldn't be rushed and rest and reflection walk happily together. Of course, I want my reflection to be near the top so more people can read it, so I eschewed the rest and am finishing my reflection on the challenge before the challenge has officially finished.
In that vein, I would not start the A to Z Road Trip until Memorial Day. On the positive side, I think it's grand that there will be at least one post a month on the challenge blog for the rest of the year. I did one of those posts in February 2022 and would be honored to step in again if asked.
Next Year: I plan on an A to Z look at characters from The Chronicles of Narnia. Each year since 1983, I have been reading all the books at least once and this year when I do I'll begin making a list of which characters will appear here in 2024.
Harry Truman, Doris Day, Red China, Johnnie Ray
South Pacific, Walter Winchell, Joe DiMaggio
Joe McCarthy, Richard Nixon, Studebaker, television
North Korea, South Korea, Marilyn MonroeRosenbergs, H-bomb, Sugar Ray, Panmunjom
Brando, "The King and I", and "The Catcher in the Rye"
Eisenhower, Vaccine, England's got a new queen
Marciano, Liberace, Santayana, goodbyeWe didn't start the fire
It was always burning, since the world's been turning
We didn't start the fire
No, we didn't light it, but we tried to fight itJoseph Stalin, Malenkov, Nasser and Prokofiev
Rockefeller, Campanella, Communist Bloc
Roy Cohn, Juan Peron, Toscanini, Dacron
Dien Bien Phu falls, "Rock Around the Clock"Einstein, James Dean, Brooklyn's got a winning team
Davy Crockett, Peter Pan, Elvis Presley, Disneyland
Bardot, Budapest, Alabama, Krushchev
Princess Grace, Peyton Place, Trouble in the SuezWe didn't start the fire
It was always burning, since the world's been turning
We didn't start the fire
No, we didn't light it, but we tried to fight itLittle Rock, Pasternak, Mickey Mantle, Kerouac
Sputnik, Chou En-Lai, "Bridge on the River Kwai"
Lebanon, Charles de Gaulle, California baseball
Starkweather homicide, children of thalidomideBuddy Holly, Ben Hur, space monkey, mafia
Hula hoops, Castro, Edsel is a no-go
U2, Syngman Rhee, Payola and Kennedy
Chubby Checker, Psycho, Belgians in the CongoWe didn't start the fire
It was always burning, since the world's been turning
We didn't start the fire
No, we didn't light it, but we tried to fight itHemingway, Eichmann, "Stranger in a Strange Land"
Dylan, Berlin, Bay of Pigs invasion
"Lawrence of Arabia", British Beatlemania
Ole Miss, John Glenn, Liston beats Patterson
Pope Paul, Malcolm X, British politician sex
JFK – blown away, what else do I have to say?We didn't start the fire
It was always burning, since the world's been turning
We didn't start the fire
No, we didn't light it, but we tried to fight itBirth control, Ho Chi Minh, Richard Nixon back again
Moonshot, Woodstock, Watergate, punk rock
Begin, Reagan, Palestine, terror on the airline
Ayatollah's in Iran, Russians in Afghanistan"Wheel of Fortune", Sally Ride, heavy metal suicide
Foreign debts, homeless vets, AIDS, crack, Bernie Goetz
Hypodermics on the shore, China's under martial law
Rock and roller, cola wars, I can't take it anymoreWe didn't start the fire
It was always burning, since the world's been turning
We didn't start the fire
But when we are gone
It will still burn on, and on, and on, and on, and on, and on, and on, and on
I knew I was going to mention more than 26 people alive in 1921. That being said, I was very surprised when I tabulated that I had mentioned 69 people and 1 stuffed bear that were around in 1921.
At the first mention of each these people, I always included how many years they had lived before 1921 and after 1921. On average these people lived 30 years before 1921 and 48 years after. This means my average subject was born in 1891 and died in1969. In 1891 there were 44 states in the U.S.
During the challenge I tried to include material from my other blogs, both new material and previously published material on the people I was profiling. I also tried when possible to include people living in 1921 who were still alive in 2021. I started with Al Jaffee on my first post, Prince Phillip passed away during the challenge before I got to Q for Queen's Consort. I discovered today that I had already included someone years ago in the A to Z challenge who is currently living. In 2015 I participated in the A to Z challenge from, Crazy Uncle Dave's Sports Blog and my theme was White Sox Home Run Hitters. For E I wrote about Eddie Robinson. At the time Eddie was 94 years old and the 21st oldest living major leaguer. Since then, Eddie has become the oldest living major leaguer. He was born December 15, 1920. That means I began the A to Z challenge with someone from 1921 who is still alive and I get to end the challenge the same way.
I really enjoyed participating in the challenge again this year. I have my theme all set for next year but first I'm going back to the simpler non a to z blogging lifestyle. I am looking forward to the a to z road trip after a little rest. Working for a century can do that to you.