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Saturday, January 25, 2025
Team Saturdazzle: The One With The Made Up Holidays
Monday, January 6, 2025
16th Blogoversary Post
16 years ago, George W. Bush was in the final days of his Presidency, Illinois Senator Barack Obama was about to become the 44th President of the U.S., the Chicago Cubs were nine months away from going 100 years without winning a World Series and a little blog called Home School Dad published it's first post, Why We Homeschool.
That little blog still exists, in fact, you are reading it. Its name has changed since then and may change again, as I mentioned in my last post.
In the inaugural post, I answered the title question with 2 pictures and 7 words. The words were: Three precious reasons: Lucy, Emma, and Charlie, and the pictures were of the aforementioned children. The post did not go into further detail but one of the main reasons why we home-educated our children was part of a concerted effort to build into our children a Godly character.
Those reasons are all now adults and the youngest is 5 years removed from her last homeschooling, unless you count her Freshman year of high school where she was having school at home because of COVID. At the moment, all 3 of our children are at home until the youngest goes back to Champaign later this month.
In the past few months, I have had sufficient opportunity to evaluate the character development of all our kids. Each of my children has talked with me or my wife or both of us recently about individual issues they are going through. I'd detail them here, but it wouldn't make it through the vetting process. They are handling these issues in a mature and Godly fashion. After we talked to one of them yesterday my wife reminded me that their response was a specific answer to prayer she had sent to our church just a few months ago. I can also see the beginning of adult friendships taking place between them. We just came back from a trip out East to a family wedding and most of the family squabbling was relegated to me and one of my siblings who accompanied us on the trip.
I don't look back at our home school adventure as a qualified success. However, on the 16th anniversary of this blog, I am glad to look back and see that God has at least used it to help meet some of our purposes for it.
Wednesday, November 27, 2024
Facing The Unknown - Weekly Writers Workshop
This weeks prompts for Weekly Writers Workshop hosted by the inimitable (I should know, I try to imitit him all the time, and I am not able) John Holton on his blog, The Sound of One Hand Typing, are: write a post on the word medications, write a post in exactly 12 sentences, write about what would induce you to give up life as you know it and face the unknown, tell us the story of your personal experience with rejection, write about a bad habit you'd like to eliminate from your life, and write about a time you had to let go of someone you cared for. I'm sure you have deciphered by the enormity of the first sentence, and the title of this post which prompts I have chosen.
There have been at least 5 times in my adult life that I have given up life as I knew it and faced the unknown: moving across the state at the age of 22 to attend university, moving across the world to serve 2 years as a Southern Baptist missionary in Far East Russia in 1992 a few months after the country had opened it's doors to Western missionaries, moving across the U.S. to attend seminary, moving across the country again back to my native Illinois to court the woman who would become my wife, and finally moving against the grain by staying at home for 6 years and homeschooling my children. In each of these cases I gave up life as I knew it and faced the unknown; in the first 4 I also had to let people go that I cared for (the 6th prompt).
What motivated me those 5 times varied by degree but they all had to do with a path I have tried to follow since becoming a follower of Jesus more than 40 years ago and that path has been putting the needs of others before my own. I am not perfect, so I haven't been perfectly motivated and I sure haven't perfectly followed this path but the path has certainly led many times to leaving life as I then knew it.
My first three travels were all based on what I thought would be the life of a missionary. When I left South Carolina where I had attended seminary for a year to pursue marriage with Amy, I had already become uncertain of a career as a missionary, but one of the myriad reasons I had fallen in love with her was because I had seen in our 7 years of friendship that she was also on the path to putting others needs before her own. So I envisioned that we would attempt to meet those needs together, which we have for 26 years and continue to do so however imperfectly.
The needs of my wife and children motivated me as a home educator, they also prepared me for my current job as a substitute teacher. With all our children out of high school, there may come a day when Amy and I, as a couple give up life as we know it and face the unknown. I am certain that the same motivations that directed in the past would lead us into any new unknown.
I know would like to lead you back to the known, which is a variety pack of other submissions that can be found in the comments section of this weeks edition of the Weekly Writer's Workshop.
Wednesday, May 8, 2024
A to Z 2024 Holiday Reflection
This is my 2nd of two reflections for the A to Z 2024 challenge, This will include some thoughts feelings and concerns in no particular order from my foray into all things Holidays. If you would like to see my first reflection which focused on the playlist I amassed from my songs of the day during the challenge click here.
My Theme for the 2023 A to Z challenge was Holidays. The idea behind it started to germinate when I worked at Chase in their Business Fraud department. Each day we my manager would start a chat for all of us working on that day. Each day she would title the chat with a different holiday that was taking place that day. She would choose the Holiday from a list she would find on the internet for that day. I don't remember exactly which one she queued them from, but it was similar to what you would find on National Day Calendar.
Instead of making an alphabetized list of such holidays, I wanted to actually choose holidays occurring on the day the letter was posting. From the start this proved to be problematic. National Autism Awareness Day is April 2nd and autism starts with an A. but April 2nd we featured the 2nd letter of the Alphabet, which is a B. Some worked out just fine, like April 4th was the first day of the United Kingdom's Discover National Parks Fortnight. May need just a little tweaking. Wednesday, April 3rd which is National Film Score Day matched with the letter C, by being described as Cinematic Compositions.
When I get a idea for a theme , I often add to it a few wrinkles. One wrinkle I added was immediately confusing. I decided to not only write about actual made-up holidays, but to also make up 5 of my own. I chose 5 because there are that many vowels in my native tongue. I say immediately confusing because A, the first letter of the alphabet is a vowel, so I made up a holiday, Adult Children Appreciation Day, on the first day of the challenge. It wasn't until the next day that I started chronicling actual holidays like Children's Picture Book Day which I introduced as B is for Books for Children.
Even though I explained the entire concept each day with the same exact disclaimer:
For The A to Z Challenge this year, I am focusing on everyday holidays. Each day there are multiple unusual things to celebrate. Every day of the challenge I look for an event taking place that day and pair it with the letter of the day. I have also made up 5 holidays to coincide with the vowel days of the challenge.
I still think that doing something different with the vowels was confusing and I don't think I'll attempt that again. I did, however like making up holidays. For Adult Children Appreciation Day I wrote each of my 3 children aged 18 to 24, a letter appreciating, encouraging, and advising them. I plan to do the same the next time Adult Children Appreciation Day Rolls around which will be on April 21st , 2025 (As you know, Adult Children Appreciation Day is always the Monday after Easter). Besides Adult Children Appreciation Day, I also created 4 other Holidays
E was for Wedding Planner Black Friday
I was for Indicted Illinois Governors Day
O was for One More Time and You get a Parade Day
U was for Undecided, Undeclared & Uncertain Day
Speaking of Undecided, Undeclared & Uncertain Day, I tried to mix up my presentations here and there this challenge. This blog used to be 4 different blogs, 2 general interest blogs, 1 vlog, and 1 sports blog. During the challenge I tried to bring in features from some of these blogs to my daily posts. The U post was presented in vlog fashion as a You Tube video of me presenting the day in question. On my M day I posted about National Micro-volunteering Day, but I did so in Frequently Asked Question Format which is a format I have used multiple times before in my blogs. I even had two holidays regarding sports for S and T.
I completed the challenge this year. What I try to do is predate my entry so it drops at the time that reflects that day's date. For example my A post dropped at 4:01 A.M. on April 1st. Some days I had to manually post later that day. On one occasion I posted minutes before midnight. I was never late and I was never early each post dropped on the correct day.
I didn't drop in on every blog but I did visit quite a few, I received 90 comments on my blog in April and I feel like I may have left that may comments myself. Next year I'll try to keep track. I discovered 3 new blogs during the challenge that I have been following, they are Hot Dogs and Marmalade, The Versesmith, and Backsies is What There is not. I am giving them all a try out on one of my blogrolls along with the The Curry Apple Orchard, which was my favorite blog to follow during the challenge. Now that the challenge is over I hope to pore through every reflection and discover some more blogs worth following,
Before I put this reflection to bed, and me with it, I have a couple of final thoughts.
- The end of the school year is fast upon us, and the middle school where I am a building sub, is basing their end of the year countdown with theme days from the holiday of that day. What a fantastic idea, I wish I had done something like that for the challenge. Oh wait, I did!
- In my Theme Reveal this year, I mentioned how my theme for 2024 was supposed to be Chronicles of Narnia related. My plan is to reread all the books this year, as I do most every year but did not do in 2023, and have that be my 2025 A to Z theme.
Monday, April 1, 2024
A to Z 2024: A is for Adult Children

Andy Gullahorn and Jill Phillips |
Saturday, January 30, 2021
12 from 2020
It may be difficult to imagine a hopeful piece about house arrest. Steve West talks about his life in an early covid lockdown and by using his and other's memories talks about doing far more with far less.
My ally stands. “Here’s a place—a fragile, earthen vessel, admittedly, yet one that will hold you, for now,” it says
And yes, I just did order Diane Keaton's book House which D.J. Waldie wrote the text for from my home librray.
Blog: Desiring God
Policies, Persons and Paths to Ruin: Pondering the Implications of the 2020 Election October 22, 2020
Author and Pastor John Piper is not the only contributor to the blog on the Desiring God but his posts are generally the ones I most appreciate. This post I found especially gratifying as I had decided on the same course of action for the election as he did. Well approximately the same, he chose a write in candidadte, I just moved on to the next race. Piper makes a very good defense of not voting for Trump or Biden without mentioning either by name.
Favorite Line: In fact, I think it is a drastic mistake to think that the deadly influences of a leader come only through his policies and not also through his person.
Something similar is happening now in the presidential election. Trump has predicted that he will win when the votes are counted OR if the tally shows him losing, it will be because of vote fraud. He has also affirmed that he would take the election to the Supreme Court if he loses. This is dangerous for our country. If there is a fair election AND Trump actually loses, many of his more devoted followers might protest the counting of mail in votes and declare fraud. Some of these followers might turn to violence.
I am certain this is not something Lindy wanted to be right about. At least we can't say He didn't warn us.
* I've always wanted to say italics mine. As long as we are doling out punctuation marks, I'll take the ampersand.
Blog: The Aaugh Blog
Colorblind Eye Patch Dec 9, 2020
The Aaugh Blog is an independent Peanuts website that I quite enjoy. I really liked this post that talks about some of my favorite strips from when I was a kid when Sally had lazy eye. No favorite line just favorite memories.
Blog: Thinking Person's Guide To Autism
Losing Hard Won Freedoms: The Pandemics Toll on People with I/DD December 10, 2020
I hate to end on a sour note but Covid has been especially hard on people with disabilites. as I'm typing this on My daughter who has high functioning autism is playing monopoly with her Mom and sister. (More on this epic game here and here. That reminds me that she has been unable to attend her monthly game night for young adults with HFA for almost a year. As Ivanova Smith states it ican be much more difficult for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities than just missing a game night.
Favorite Line: (Smith describing the effects of the isolation that pandemic restrictions has caused her). I feel like I am stuck in a car that keeps going backwards and backwards and I can’t make it stop.
A Quote to Start Things Off
Snow Kidding!
These "kids" now range from 19 to 25
These Blogs Are SO 2024
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An IndyCar Girl in NASCAR Territory1 month ago
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List Your Way2 months ago
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On Wednesday, after the election …3 months ago
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Grief: A Brief Description5 months ago
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REFLECTIONS9 months ago
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Treasures everywhere6 years ago